Sorry for the long post, this kind of got away from me.

I (M38,D) just got done receiving a blowjob from my wife (F32,s) in a way that ticked a kink of mine but is not something she enjoys. She asked for a favor earlier this week, that I granted on the condition that she give me a blowjob where I ignore her throughout. I get a big kick out of receiving sexual pleasure while ignoring the sub giving it to me. Whether it be playing video games, reading a book, playing poker, or whatever. The act of receiving pleasure and not acknowledging the sub giving it is a huge turn-on for me. Not for my wife. She really hates it if I'm not paying attention to her while she is blowing me, with the only exception being if we are watching porn together and are having sex while watching. Closest she'll usually come to engaging in this with me is to give me a blowjob as I fall asleep. She will just nurse on my cock as I fall asleep and will keep it up until I fall asleep, or am very very close to sleep.

As a result, I very rarely negotiate for this type of activity. I normally just use other partners for it that enjoy that treatment/kink. But, I was in the mood for it this week and it had been a really long time since I asked for that service from her. She agreed to it, and the blowjob went great. My question comes from what I noticed after. When she finished, I noticed that she did not look happy or satisfied. I made sure to hug and kiss her. To tell her thank you, and that I really appreciated her doing something that she normally doesn't enjoy.

I know that it is probably impossible to get her feelings about the act itself to change, and I am not looking for a way to change her that much. I just wish I could figure out a way for her to feel a sense of accomplishment for doing what I asked as her Daddy (we have a DDlg dynamic that is almost entirely bedroom only with a few exceptions). I don't feel good when we negotiate something, and I can tell after it's over that she received no enjoyment from it. This wasn't a punishment. I wanted her to enjoy, at the very least, the fact that she did as I asked and did it so well that I came sooner than I planned on.

Am I wrong for wanting this? Not sure what to do here.