I thought it would be fun to talk about some things I have done as a Dom.

Well first of all I don't like kink to be in the bedroom only. For me It should penitraits most aspects of life but not in an overwhelming controlling way. Rules, protocols and such should be in many non sexual aspects of life. I especially love being able to have rules that help my subs have structure a and achieve goals.

For example one of my pets had a really hard time maintaining a decent sleep schedule and complained about it often. We had both talked about setting her rules. I would enforce she wanted me to lay some out and while I do have some I like I finde it better to build such things around a sub specifically.

So I offered to enforce a bedtime. She agreed but was hesitant until we were a month into her having to text master (me) goodnight or say it if together put up all electronics and be in bed by 10 on the weekdays and 11pm on the weekends, knowing the master would check everything to see if she was up. About a month in she said she felt so much better physically and mentally and thanked me for it unprompted this genuinely made me happy. I loved providing this structure she valued.

This rule also produced one of my favorit and the funnest for me protocols and punishments I use. Any time she did want or need to stay up past bed time she had to submit a written request letter stating what rule she wanted an exception to, why she wanted it, why the rule was important, thanking master for enforcing the rule and reading the request. She would then need to sit in her holding position while I read and graded (not for spelling or gramer but the content and dame or in it) the request. I now use this any time a sub needs an exception even if it's just a formality for something she obviously needs and is just granted. It's fun and feels like bonding/intimate emotionally to me.

Rules like this that provide structure and add value to my subs day to day life while also adding to the power difference dynamic.

Haha 😂 one of my favorite moments was when we were playing Stardew together and we had rules. She had to sort all of the chests and feed/pet the animals. If she missed one, the dump chest was full or the chests unorganized, or she didn't make it to bed by 12 in game she would be punished. One in-game day she fell asleep outside and missed feeding chickens earning herself 20 spankings and a 2 page paper (formatted as 12 new roman single spaced no shortened paragraphs must be coherent can't copy from past works and must not ramble sorry brats it was specific) on why it's important she feeds the chickens it was so adorable the way she went on about it and waited patiently for I to grade it.

This honestly was one of my favorite things I have ever done with my subs!