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Does anyone else wish they could have more kink positive friends? I have some great female friends but weāre all feminists and I worry they would judge my lifestyle is I was open with them bc I am heavily Owned by my Master. He is amazing and the love of my life and the most supportive person I have ever met ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø but I worry they wouldnāt see him that way if they misinterpret our lifestyle as abuse. Itās not. Itās my dream come true. Master keeps me completely denied and in chastity and controls every aspect of my life and I could not be happier and more content for it. Just wish I had female friends I could talk to about that side of my life without worry bc itās a huge part of me and the best part of my life š„°ā¤ļø
Thatās good advice. Thank you ā¤ļø
Ah, yea, we are definitely IN the kink community š š¤
Same minus the telling a friend part lol
No swingers are not my community at all lol. Totally fine for others though but not my thing. Iām in permanent chastity and only play with my Owner
Thank you! Iāll send you a message š„°ā¤ļø
I wasnāt claiming they were āreal kinkstersā I was talking about not feeling comfortable coming out to my normal friends. Meaning ppl not in the kink lifestyle. I have āgotten out thereā and met ppl irl. You can do that and also look online. The two are not mutually exclusive
We can just talk to each other about how much we love our Masters if you want š„°š
I am very busy and donāt like to leave my Master. I stay where he is always
Itās not. Even compared to other people in my local bdsm scene what me and my Master have is a lot deeper and more committed. I would say all the others Iāve met are more subs than slaves, not that thereās anything wrong with that. But they still canāt fully relate to my lifestyle with my Owner š¤
I do have one online friend who is an Owned slave in a lesbian relationship. I love having her to talk to at least ā¤ļø but would be nice to have an irl friend
I donāt live in California. I am on fetlife and have been to munches in my area but they usually happen when I have to work
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Yes Iām aware but people still donāt always accept heavy kink relationships and I feel apprehensive. I have dropped some casual hints but havenāt ever felt totally safe coming out about it. I have been to the munches in my city before but unfortunately they often are on days/times where I have to be at work