I’ve seen a lot of posts here and in other bdsm forums about people wanting to worship their dom or domme , asking advice on things like: how to do acts of service, how to worship a dom’s cock (if they had one) , how to be a good toy for the domme to use, etc etc.

The majority of the posts, especially the ones centred around worshippinng a dominant in a sexual manner seemed to be regarding straight couples which comprised of an AMAB person and an AFAB person.

My dominant and I are two cis women, so a lot of the advice in these posts seems great, but it does not apply, and I am having difficulties translating it to my relationship. I would love to be able to apply it to my relationship. How could I eat her out, for example, in a way that would make her feel superior, and revered, the same way a submissive woman workship her master’s cock? How could I worship my domme in a similar sexual manner?

How can I worship her pussy, and lend myself to be her good obedient toy that looks out for her and makes her feel revered and in control?

She enjoys using me and stretching me and I have seen her cum just by fingering me and using me, and doing some impact play on me, and this fills me with joy, butt I’d like to try and have a less passive role in being her toy, and see if this is something we can incorporate in the dynamic .

Do people have any suggestions?

We are quite experienced kinksters, and have been in the scene for years, but I’m just a little short of ideas. Of course anything brought up here, I will discuss and share with her, but I wanted to be inspired by you lovely peeps!