Hi. We are new to BDSM, have experimented with a few things but are rather serious this time. I (D) want to force my female sub to orgasm. So far I have done that manually which has worked well, but doesn't give me the option to do anything else while she has forced orgasms. We tried vibrating toys (a Lovense Lush). She said that the vibration, no matter the pattern, doesn't do much for her. It isn't exactly unpleasant, but she won't orgasm. She likes dildos a lot, which had me thinking about thrusting dildos as fucking machines are not an option at the moment (due to space). I also thought about the praised Hitachi magic wands, as the vibration is supposed to be a lot stronger and might therefore work. I also thought about having her ride a dildo and punish her if she slows down/stops, but that has me engaged as well. What I want to do is sit in a chair next to her, lean back and enjoy the show, possibly with a remote in hand.

Any good options? Thank you for all suggestions!