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Anyone had a claimed pleasure dom not give them pleasure at all? Iām confused
It was my understanding that a pleasure dom is mainly focused on orgasm control/forced orgasms/etc., dominating by trying to overwhelm the sub with pleasure and not as focused on degradation/humiliation/sadism. Of course, to each the sub's own as to what they regard as pleasure, so as with all things, everyone's (and their preferences and kinks) are on a spectrum.
I've never heard of a pleasure dom as being someone who thinks they're great in bed or that it means they think they're great at giving pleasure. More that they're just not SPECIFICALLY a "hard dom".
Seems more like a service dom thing, really (is that a thing?)...
OP, if you had a poor experience, you probably were just with the wrong and/or inexperienced person, either because they just weren't a good dom or you were just incompatible with each other (or both).
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