Hello! My name is Jeanie and I have been looking for a dom about a few months now... For those who are currently in a bdsm dynamic/relationship where did you find your partner? Naturally, I am inclined towards a daddy/dom and so dating has not really been sucessful on my end as I always feel unsatisfied in that area.

On the other hand, I have also been approached by men stating that they are interested in that dynamic but in reality they just want a fuckbuddy or a one night stand. Personally, I am not into hookup culture and I want a dom that I can introduce to my friends or family as my boyfriend. I want someone that is there for me in and outside of the bedroom...

And so, Where should I look? I have tried Fetlife, okcupid, and Fet the app but my area (Charleston, SC) has not yielded good results... I either get horny men who just want to fuck or people offering to be my “sugar daddy”.

Should I stop looking and settle for vanilla relationships?