I've been ghosted, lied to and manipulated by 4 different guys in the last few months and I just feel like there's no point in trying anymore.

Had 1 guy call me a freak when he himself said he was kink positive and I said I liked degradation play. Another we (seemingly) hit it off really well, and when we arranged to actually hook up...nothing, blocked on all social media.

Is it something I'm doing wrong? I'm just feeling like a nasty slush of loneliness and worthlessness.

I kind of get why some guys are turning to AI girlfriends, dating really sucks, even moreso in a smaller pool of supposedly "kinky" people.

Is there any point in even trying to find a dominant or should I just double down on the big side of the D slash (I'm a switch, but hard lean sub) since there's a way bigger pool of Sub guys?

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