Hello. So, I'd say I'm fairly new to exploring my sexuality (31yr gay women) came out at 26 and just recently learned in the past year or so what kinks I have & new to the bdsm community. I'm a brat that likes to be bossed around, controlled, decisions made for me,... I'm into some pet play, pet names, cnc, and dumbification. However, I also am a loving supportive partner & cater to my partner needs & life as well... I'm still fairly new to this and I've nvr actually had a dom partner, but have only flirted a few times. While doing so, I get turned on but I feel so shy & like I'm doing a shitty job. Don't really know how to ask, but I guess just wondering on what phrases to say that most doms like & how to sound/be more submissive.