Hey there! I had posted this over on /r/BDSMPersonals, and someone I've been talking with suggested I come here for better conversation. If it somehow runs afoul of the rules, let me know.

Anyway, hi! I'm a beta male. And I'd like to clear a few things up:

First off, I'm not weak, or pathetic, or basically a helpless bimbo girl. That's a totally different fetish, and while I'm sure there's some overlap, that's not my particular thing.

I enjoy being a facilitator. A sidekick. Capable in my own right, but ultimately, the movie isn't about me. It's about the alpha. And it's my job to help the alpha (man or woman! It's 2023, equal opportunity) get what they need. I'm funny, enjoyable to be around, and ultimately (hopefully), prove myself indispensable. Indiana Jones has Salah, Claire Dunphy has Phil, beta males are everywhere, and they're not all (necessarily) Gaston and Lefou.

And even though I could spend some more time in the gym, that doesn't mean anything either way! There's this perception that having huge muscles and a big dick gives you automatic alpha status, and that's just not true. Plenty of guys with a beta temperament put in their gym time, and, well, I've got a good-sized dick and I'm writing this post.
The physical is so much less important than the mental, which is good, because sometimes the alpha needs someone big helping them out.

Overall though, the whole alpha/beta dynamic is just hot. I love helping, I love facilitating and making people happy, and I also love someone above me who knows their status.
And I've found that that kind of transcends sexuality. I'm straight, and it's amazing to date a confident, smart alpha woman, but I also get a kick out of being around masculine, dominant alpha men. Both genders are able to deliver the little humiliations that really get me, and, if they can't find a better man for the night, I'm equipped to help either of them. It's not about gay or straight, it's about serving and pleasing the alpha.

That's my role, and I'm proud of it.