To give context I (23NB) recently started attending an event in England which I fly to from Ireland. Now that's not an issue however I currently live with my parents while I'm in university. Of course they were curious on why I suddenly started going to this "event" and kept asking questions. I managed to bluff my way through most questions until my father just straight asked if it was sex thing and apparently hesitating for a microsecond was enough for him to realise it was.

Queue horrifically awkward conversation between us where they now know things about me that they wish they could of gone to the grave without knowing.

However, since then it has been nearly nonstop "It's unsafe, you'll get hurt, you don't understand what your doing, you're going to get killed." I''ve tried to explain to them what the community is like and that one of the mains thing about BDSM is consent and communication but I swear they simply don't believe me. I know it's them just worried for me but I've started to get unbelievably annoyed and honestly it's starting to strain our relationship. Any advice/articles/resources that would help with the situation would be very appreciated.

TLDR; Parents discovered I go BDSM events, think I'm going to get murdered no matter what I say, would love some advice/articles/resources.