So I am a sub, bf is a dom. We are in an open relationship. I have a couple fwb, some who are more dominant in the bedroom but none that actually dom me. We don't use honorifics either, it's more of them telling me what to do & where to be during sex because I'm shy & usually lost haha

Anyway. I am Daddy's first sub & he is my first "real" dom. Our dynamic began as fwb but between getting to know each other, intense scenes & aftercare we have fallen in love. Daddy doesn't currently have a fwb, but would like to. He does deal with self confidence in that area so has been taking it slow & also wanted to build our dynamic first.

Him having sex with another woman doesn't bother me, the thought of that doesn't. I wouldn't be opposed to him sending pics or vids with consent either or even maybe someday watching in person.

Here's where the issue kind of begins. I'm the first person who has allowed him to do the things he wants to during sex, we've both opened up a lot in exploring things we've had to keep hidden from other partners. He does have the desire to dom others to gain experience, knowledge, and confidence. No two subs are alike & he's only been with me who is a Brat/SAM.

It doesn't sit well with me. I'm afraid of the intimacy of bdsm with another. I'm picturing the aftercare he performs with me being performed with someone else & I feel territorial/jealous. Like "this is MY Daddy" type thoughts. I don't want to be this way. I want him to explore however he wants but thought of him domming someone else makes me so anxious & insecure & it is just talk at this stage

Before anyone says, yes I have been talking through these feelings with him. He & I have great communication so he knows my uneasiness & is wanting now to pull back on exploring until I feel more comfortable but I don't want him to hold back because I am being jealous & insecure over him.