I have a femdom and we had a good d/s relation she also gas a boyfriend but they are open, i dont have any problems with her spending time with her boyfriend ofc. Me and her were very close she calling me talking for hours or going to a party or warching movies texting much she told me what bothers her or problems she have even so did i and it was good but since almost 3 weeks whe contacted her old dom because she misding him and her sub side need it. Ofc she was asking me before if she should or would this be a problem for me. i told her as long she can deal with the trouble of having a sub a dom and a boyfriend and promise to treat me and her dom equal in attation and meet ups i am fine. Now the thing is she is getting distanced over the last 2 weeks dont meet up anymore very little texting to the point where she told me we should do a few days without texting at allcuz she have personal problems and is distant to everyone she knows. So i agreed and want to give her space even more but i couldn't not see she texting with her dom all time this sunday adter 3 days no cobtact she send me voice message that she was thinking abt me and want to ,,play" with me again but it.s to late since she need to work monday, so i was a bit more happy and wrote her monday that i would love to meet for playing to she told me her dom was there yesterday and they ,,talked" now today after i asked what her plams for today is she told me her boyriemd is visiting cuz he habe no time this weekend so i asked her if we then gonna do something but she answered her dom is comming over this weekend and i didint thought much telling her i need attention to after 4 weeks not seeing and barely texting and it would be fair when i could come over, then she told me yes i am sorry but there are some serious topic.s they must discusst and stuff, idk how to react now does it even make sense to continue this d/s realtion or should i try my luck and look for another dom, i am also kinda sad cuz in 3 weeks he visit and stay overnight 6 times where i in 2 months had 2 meetups with her where we did kinky stuff without overnight making me feel replaced and unwanted tbh