i’m not sure on how this dynamic starts, like what do i need to ask him to pick a good/trustworthy brat tamer? do you just go into submission and learn about them as you go? and does this always involve sex or can you chose to wait if you haven’t had sex before? and how do i learn about my limits if im not too sure what i like yet

i’m also just worried about getting into a position where the person could go too far too quick (especially irl) so how do you stay safe when you’re asking for trouble all the time?

i don’t think any of the guys around me are into brat taming already/ want someone more experienced anyway so where would be the best way to go about finding a dom irl or online

so many questions but don’t know where else to ask ty