I’m looking for some tips on things I can do to excite him, and sex acts for us to try together. He’s really into submission, but he doesn’t have a lot of fantasies/experience, so I’m looking for some suggestions.

There have been a lot of moments during sex where I’m not sure what to do because I can’t…think of anything new? So far, he’s enjoyed being slapped in the face, being choked, being commanded to sit a certain way or lie still, getting hickeys, and having his back scratched up. I know there’s a lot to work with but I just feel so stuck?

For example, he really liked when I told him to kiss me and then made that impossible—I grabbed his neck, pulled him away by the hair, etc. What are some other little things like this that I can do? It’s a bit challenging to exert physical strength over him like in the above example (he’s a 6” martial artist) so I’d appreciate tips that also focus more on the mental aspect/teasing :)