In my day to day life, I present as a very prim and proper lady. I'm polite, I dress well and modestly, I'm pretty much in line with the idea of how a confident, well-mannered woman should look and behave.

Underneath that façade, no stranger on the street or acquaintance who doesn't know me well enough could guess that I'm wearing no panties under my skirt, or that I've got a plug inside me, or a vibrator someone is controlling from afar. No one could ever guess the things I enjoy in the privacy and confidence of being next to other kinky people.

To me, this makes it all the better. Usually when I get to meet someone, sometimes even fellow kink-minded invididuals, I break their expectations of how I might behave in bed and and it gets both of us even more excited.

Does anyone have any similar experiences?