Hi I am the sub and have a mommy fem dom we are not in a romantic relationship, she is switch and since last week got in touch with a dom herself she has a in our d/s relationship that is no kissing and no pussy in no way.s licking,fingering etc. Because she would feel bad about her boyfriend.

And i was kinda ok with that limit, now we meet up inly for talking, she her dom and me cause she wanted us to know eachother he is a kinda cocky and possessive dude graping her pussy fingering her a bit kissing and choaking her into submission and hold her by his side, every 10-15minutes talking about fucking her and stuff it was a weird meet up for me tbh, i though she wiuld feel bad for her boyfriend but thats why the limits but now i feel very bad because realize they have way more dynamic and fun together and i really dont like her dom, i texted her today and asked about our limits if we remove them now but she told me she would feel uncomfy with it i now feel like a clown dont knowing what to do pretty much 😅