So basically the only real domme experience I have is talking online, but like a lottttt and also usually way way way way more kinky than anything I’d actually do IRL with my bf.

But his previous gf was really domme in their relationship, and used to take control a lot and even peg him. Our sex is great, but I can tell he misses and needs me to take a more dominating role (which is great and I’d love to, I just don’t know how to in a normal way if that makes sense?).

For example sometimes if he loses his hard on or we want to go a second round, I’ll let him suck on my tits while I stroke his face and rub my fingers through his hair. He gets really subby and adorable anytime he’s near my tits and it’s actually adorable, even though they’re not huge or anything. Also when he’s alone I know he does ass play sometimes, he sends me pictures and it turns me on a lot.

But I don’t know how to domme him. Like it doesn’t feel the most natural to me, without me being a huge cunt to him and super rude (my online domme play was really degrading and heavy into feminization etc, which my boyfriend is not into). I have a strap on and a set of dildos for it, and I bought a cage for him as well (he brought it up first). But i just don’t know how to bridge the gap towards actually domming him. IRL I’m really sweet and friendly, and he is way taller and larger than I am and perceived as very very manly.

So, advice? Anything and everything please. What are some small things I can do that subtly make him feel subby, both in life and in sex? And less subtle things? I will eventually peg him and we will dabble with the cage, but I really need advice on getting to that point.

Tyia ❤️