So me m(40) Daddy Dom sub f(38) is working through her masters. Last week she was not as productive as she had wanted to be. She was feeling defeated and guilty about it which just made it a self fulfilling prophecy for the rest of the week. We don’t live towns because of life can only see each other once or twice a week. This Saturday she asked me to punish her for this so she could let it go and felt accountable for it. So I spanked with my riding crop and talked to her the whole time as to why I was doing and making her promise to work hard this week. We also did our regular spanking routine where I use my hand and praise her and have her repeat positive affirmations as I do it. This always helps her feel better about her self and feel loved and cared for. Come today she feels great and ready to take on the week. What I am trying to think of is what to do when she feels that same since of defeat in the future. I want to be able to have a place for her to put that guilt and defeat so it does not hold her back until we see each other again. What I have thought of is checking in with her each night so she can report on her productivity and keep track of it until I can punish her again.
I was wondering if other Daddy Doms have similar systems with their subs?