Hi everyone,

I'm 22 years old straight guy and I've been trying chastity for a couple years now. I started this to explore kinky side of me and I liked it. In fact I got quite a bit into kinky things. The main reason for me to try chastity was to reduce the frequency of my masturbation but then I got too anxious and felt bad mentally. I guess I tried to go longer without getting used to this.

The only problem with chastity in general for me is how it takes away everything and its not fun. How can I adapt my life to this and make it fun?

How can I do this play while improving my life?

I masturbate everyday / even sometimes few times a day and doing the same isn't anything special now. I got tired of feeling empty and lack of self confidence. I noticed that chastity and being denied for a bit gives me so much more confidence and makes me a better person like more of open eyed rather than drunk from constant masturbation.

Also, I always fail to resist the urge and I make myself orgasm in cage which then brings a huge guilt feelimg.

I need some ideas please. I will appreciate decent responses. Thanks