So I've been part of r/Blackmailers for some time and decided to take a stab at it. It's not for everyone and it is quite a risky kink.

Anyway, I gave it a shot and the person I was talking to seemed genuinely interested for a time. Provided info, I guaranteed we wouldn't cross lines, yada yada. Except right when I was about to wrap up and head to bed, assumably to come back tomorrow to talk to them more, they dropped it on me that they just finished beating off and said the info was fake.

Now, yeah, that thought definitely crossed my mind before when I've thought about letting myself be blackmailed before (didn't do it) but it kinda just made me feel used? Like yeah no connection which I get and it's bound to happen but... it didn't sit well with me.

Anyone else had this sort of thing happen where they felt used and not in a kinky way?