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I’m trans, I only really date other trans fem people. I’m a switch. I’m reasonably competent at being a dom. Whenever that comes out in conversation I become defacto dom most of the time. Like every conversation I have becomes “oh you’re a dom? Please dom me mommy”.

The only people I consistently find interested in domming me are men whom I’m not interested in to begin with and it feels weird and wrong to try and get a guy to dom me while I imagine in my head he’s a woman and just pretend not to see him with the body he’s in.

I’m just so tired of always doing all the executive functioning and thinking. Do any other fem switches have this experience?

It’s like being forever DM at a DND circle. I like it but fucking Christ sometimes you just wanna not be the leader of every situation I’m in sexual or otherwise.