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Please don't try to convince people their limits aren't real
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I want to post because I need to get this off my chest. I've been trying to find partners for specific scenes and keep encountering the same issue. I'll tell them my limits (for example, I don't engage in knife play) and the immediate response is that person explaining why it would be different with them or why I shouldn't have that limit "because it's really safe actually" and if I only understood I'd be ok with it.

The ONLY response you should have to someone communicating a limit is to say "ok thank you for sharing". Anything else, especially when you haven't met in person, says to me that you don't take consent very seriously or see it as a mutable line rather than a hard boundary.

I will say the upside to people doing this is that it tells me to block them immediately and move on, but please...stop doing this.

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