Hello everyone,

I'm a 22-year-old university student who's been exploring chastity training for the past year or two. The concept of being locked is exciting for me, but every time I give it a try, I face a real struggle - thats quick horniness and frustration followed by failed self control. I haven't been able to stay locked for more than two weeks in the last year or so. It's frustrating, and I'm struggling to find the strength not to break the rules.

I have to travel about 40mins each way on a daily basis and that includes cycling too. I really want to wear my cage 24hr periods before cleaning, is that possible/safe to be caged whilst on the go?

Chastity puts me in a very submissive head space, which sometimes feels very comforting and safe, but other times when I'm horny its very hard to behave well and keep myself locked. Interestingly, I've noticed that chastity has become somewhat addictive for me. The control and surrender aspects deeply appeal to me, but this feeling of addiction adds to my frustration as I try to balance my desires.

On top of that, I'm concerned about how a future partner might react if they were to discover my interest in chastity and feel weird. While I find it exciting and enjoy exploring this aspect of myself, I worry that they might look at me weirdly.

I'm trying this chastity play to stop my regular masturbation habit and rather train myself to be denied. I like how it feels but the frustration in the first few weeks is real hard to keep going!

Recently, I had the chance to meet a local dom who offered to help me with my chastity journey. While I'm tempted to accept his offer, I can't help but wonder why he would be willing to help me for free. Should I keep controlling myself according to how I feel?

So, everyone I need your help please. How can I try chastity play without getting too frustrated? Is there a way to balance my life with it while still enjoying the kink?

Any tips would be highly appreciated.