First time here. This will sound trashy and desperate. I've been a BDSM dom for like 5 years now. But the last and only time i had any real thing going on was when i first started exploring it with my ex( she initiated me into being a dom)I have learned much over the years through reading reddit posts on bdsm and a very short lived Dom-Sub relationship that never left texting but i struggle to find someone with whom to share this kink and gain more experience. I am currently in an acting presentation for a drama module and our lecturer asked us not to act one specific character as it is very, very degrading and dehumanising role. However one of my classmates has expressed her interest in playing that role, but i quickly reminded her about the lecturer's orders rgarding that character. Should I contact her privately and enquire about this and initiate something or brush it off?