Hello! I'm very new to bdsm and similar, I've read about it and once tried to be a sub online but it was actually one of those scams where they try to send your nudes to family/friends/etc.

I'm really curious about the idea and my gf recently told me she'd like to be dominated, but I'm not exactly sure how to start or what content to read/watch to learn, besides asking her what she'd like and talking about our boundaries.

In case it helps, we're both pretty new to sex too (have only had vanilla stuff) and I thought it might be nice long-term so we keep knowing each other sexually better, rather than rush it. Could you point me in the right direction or towards resources to help me? Thanks in advance!