I see there is no dedicated sub, so posting here.

Per people recommendations I have joined fetlife 2 days ago.

Few things I noticed good

• it's a great place for events happening around the place, which we wouldn't know obviously.
• seems everyone is being vetted (but I have a qn on downside )
• people seems respectful atleast on chat

Questions on

• so far I have never encountered a free or no group registration event.
• all the groups has monthly of BI monthly once a munch, where seems they observe us and approve - not clear, but seems good and bad at same time
• does all fetlife has bdsm only? And does bdsm in general involves swing as well?