My play partner and her friends and I (mf mf ~24s) went to a swingers/kink club on Friday in Bristol, and it was in every way a disaster. It was my first time at one, but they'd all been to some before, and they assured me that was not the experience for one.

It wasn't at all what the ad stated, empty, no-one followed the kinky dress code except for us, so it was very awkward being oggled at by people wearing casual clothes and jeans. Music was Spotify WITH ads, dancefloor empty, playrooms were almost all empty and locked, and not an ounce of etiquette. We made the most of it and had fun ourselves, but I've been told that now I've seen the bottom it can only go up!

So let me know about other kink events / where to find them in the UK! Feels like some don't advertise enough or at all, but I'd love to really experience it, and these friends would love for more!