We are both straight women/subs, she has a Dom who is long distance and not part of our community. I do not have a partner currently. I went to my first munch and happened to sit by this woman my age who I guess is like a pillar in my local community? Very popular, is moderator for several groups, is very close with a lot of other group moderators, and a hell of a lot more knowledgeable about kink than I am. I found her a little intimidating but very friendly. I was a little awkward because it was my first time ever going to a munch and talking about kink in a platonic setting. We chatted most of the munch and she introduced me to the moderators and a few other Doms and subs who were all very friendly. She asked for my fetlife handle and we friended each other during the munch. At the end of the munch, she said to let her know if I ever wanted to get coffee or drinks to chat more, and I said that’d be fun. I waited a few days before messaging her on FL to say it was great to meet her and also thank her for all the info she gave me about the local community. I also asked if she was still interested in getting coffee but I never received a response. I went to another munch recently where she was also an attendee, and she mostly ignored me and didn’t seem at all interested in carrying a conversation. I have no idea why the sudden switch and it makes me very nervous to go to more munches because she goes to all the ones I’m interested in. I don’t know if I should keep going and just try to avoid her? How should I handle this? I feel I should tread lightly given how loved she is by the community and being unsure if I somehow made a faux pas.