I (F23) just recently (about 2 months) started dating my boyfriend and lost my virginity to him. Prior to that, I’ve been masturbating for as long as I know and usually while consuming BDSM contents like pussy whipping, caning, torture chambers, and you name it - anything that has to do with pain and humiliation.

While PIV sex definitely feels amazing, as well as oral, I have never once been able to cum from anything my boyfriend has tried on me and it’s starting to get me worried.

I’m not at the stage in the relationship where I want to start engaging in BDSM scenes. I’ve tried to masturbate without BDSM but I have an extremely hard time cumming, so bad that most of the times I just don’t cum at all.

Has anyone experienced this?