It sorta sucks tho because those are the people who are going to show up to any kink event in my area. 😕 I'm just never gonna find a Dom my age. All the alright-looking guys want me to be the Domme. I'm like hell nah. I probably have a few hundred dollars in equipment that I use on myself alone without a partner.

As the other commenter said, the internet has a surplus of old pervy guys, and these young men who haven't got a clue (50 Shades came out when they were high school students). Usually some guy claiming to be "dominant in bed," but he just ruts carelessly and lightly taps a woman's ass (red flag: "I can do whatever you want. I can be your dom."). Otherwise, it's some guy in town for 2 days who wants to spank me in a hotel room 🤢. It's literally harder than finding a husband- that's actually easy. When I was talking to men on FetLife, it felt less like searching for someone with mutual kinks and more like they were looking for the sluttiest girl. Not being bisexual is, I guess, a major L. So is not wanting to be recorded.

Nah, I've never thought I was a male. Definitely never listed pronouns on anything online because I don't have gender dysphoria. It's not necessary.

Yeah.. make a good sub for who? You commented to me. That's what's upsetting and self-centered. It ain't just you either. Woman and female are the same btw. I don't call adults girls. I call myself a female. Yeah it reads like you were commenting to me because you were.

I'm not a Domme and I'm not a lesbian. This is part of the perv problem we've mentioned here. Just commenting on this thread, I've gotten DMs from females wanting virtual sex. Females exclusively. It's rude. The thrist isn't that real.