Hello everyone,

I never actually tried to find someone sub or slave outside my country, unfortunatly my country have few event and kinsters and find your partner will be more difficult dependents of what your searching.

Ive seen a lot of people here(bdsm personal) and fetlife, posting Ads to find what they need on theyr life, but for me it seem vague after that.

Here for exemple i go to the few even, talk, exchange number or fetlife profile, or have lucky on vanilla part(to find kinster) or even post personals on specialised website, after that i meet them on a neutral place to know better both of us and know if we are compatible, after i put a session trial, and if this work i will continues.

When it comes fron outside the country, what the second step ? First is to talk and know what theyr kink and if both of our personnality can "work" toghether. Because unfortunatly after talking a lot(and you cna see it here... Im very talkative) i will need to see the person to put in practice. Im not a virtual person, doing session online dont fit me.

Then i would like advice from people who did that before, and what they do the right step.

My goal is not to do too much fast nor too much slow, and knowing the person sufficiently to invite one day at my home. I know each other need to be prudent, me because i dont know what type of person came here(safe or dangerous) , and the interlocutor because they dont know if the place and the person it stays if safe or not.

Thanks you in advance for your advice.

Sincerely

Pbm