My husband doesn’t really enjoy using rope to tie my boobs up, so we’ve played around with a few different materials: FOE, paracord, nylons(yes like pantyhose), medical grade tubing(maybe silicone? Idk it’s stretchy), and some other stuff. We’ve found the tubing to be the best compromise for us- he really like them being tight, where as I hate anything too bulky or just generally not laying flat or smooth and dislike pain.

The issue we’re having now after 6 ish months or so, and tying them 2-4 times a week is that it’s rubbing me basically raw in areas, under the boob, towards the middle. And I’ve got marks pretty much around my entire boob from I guess just the friction, but I’m assuming those would go away after some time of not tying??

Can anyone suggest a different approach?

•Not having them tied isn’t too much of an option, i feel too self conscious about my boobs after only having sex if they were tied up for the last 2 or so years.