My partner (f) and I (m) are both switches. She is more submissive while I have a stronger dominant streak.

Recently she told me she would like me to worship her while I dominate her. I already worship her and her body when I submit to her, and I’m unsure as to how I can worship her body as a dom.

I asked her what she may want me to do/say the next time I dominate her, but she refused to elaborate, saying that “it’s pointless if I tell you”, otherwise it wouldn’t be genuine.

I’ve always prioritised communication in our sex life, so this whole making-me-guess thing is really throwing me off.

I already take control and order her to let me pamper her and fawn her with praise before/after sex, but she isn’t satisfied with that. What are some other ways I can worship her as my sub without behaving like a sub myself?