I have been wondering if it's just me or if other people can relate. I enjoyed kink when I was finding out about everything and was just doing what came naturally with my partners, no expectations or labels. After my partners i though I wanted to continue to explore my kink side and started being active in the bdsm Community. But the longer I am in the community or am exposed to the BDSM community I am getting turned off by it and even losing interest in kink. People approaching you directly to play with you, without getting to know you. Putting a lot of pressure on someone because of a Label, but in reality maybe having tried it once. It's just not what I expected, I still enjoy kink and would love to find a partner, but when they approach me on kinky sites or at munch, I'm so turned off, it's not a Casual getting to know each other and the playing just happens, there is an expectation and it's instantly kink talk