I’ve done a lot of searching and I can’t find information on this so I hope I can get some thoughts here. I also don’t talk about this a lot so please excuse me if I use the wrong words or terms.

I’m in a 24/7 DDlg dynamic which is caregiving and not age play. I am also a switch. Normally when I top I get into my domme role and go at it. It is great. No complaints.

I’ve been thinking about maybe incorporating some of my little into topping. This is a space I haven’t explored so I don’t know if it would even work. Husband is up for anything and encourages me to explore so I don’t expect any boundaries on his side. I want to talk to him about it but I want to sort it out in my head first.

I have a really cute pink outfit with a heart collar built in. I think if I add some sexy boots that might be a balance between little and domme.

I guess the idea is that I would be in control as a little and have it be a different feel. I hope I’m making sense. I still want to invoke fear as my main objective. I’m wondering if I can do that in a playful way?

Like maybe I ask for permission to top my daddy and when he says yes I transform into a very naughty girl. Like scary naughty but still playful.

I was thinking I could invent games where winning would be a punishment but so would losing. I’m thinking not long games because I don’t want to take away from the energy. Things like what number am I thinking of.

I want my DD to completely melt and relax away from being dominant because he is also a switch. Is there a way to do this if I have my little hat on?

Has anyone tried anything like this or have any ideas on whether this would work or not? Thanks in advance!