Hi Y’all. I used to be one of those people who relentlessly kink shamed CG/l dynamics despite being usually very open minded. Then I went to a combination age play/pup play event and it made me experience a complete 180 and reevaluate myself. I realized that CG/l doesn’t have to be sexual and that it can be very healing and therapeutic for traumatized littles. I realized it doesn’t even necessarily have to involve age play. I discovered that I really enjoyed little appropriate arts and crafts. Being read a story while my owner pet my hair felt so relaxing. I had a great time.

Now things are starting to not sit well with me. I worry my interest makes me sick. I feel guilty about things I used to say about DD/lg couples. My friend pointed out that my Dom is good for me because “He’s like a father figure, except you’re allowed to f**k him” and the fact that I can’t argue with that statement makes me feel a little gross. Even though I’m finding little things comforting part of me can’t let go fully of my preconceived notions and just roll with what I want.