I’ve tried using Fetlife lately, but it isn’t working out for me. Most of the other users in my area are middle-aged men, and I’m looking for a woman in her mid to late twenties. There’s also the fact that, as many of you have said, Fetlife is more of a Facebook for kinky people than a dating site. It’s good for finding munches, but my schedule, my living situation, and my anxiety (pathetic, I know) prevent me from going to munches on a regular basis. People at munches never talk about kinky stuff anyway.

However, I’ve had another BDSM dating site recommended to me called Collarspace. Based on your experiences, is Collarspace worth using?