Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
r/BDSMPersonals40Plus
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For kinky redditors searching for kinky redditors, all 40 years old or older.

BDSMPersonals40Plus Moderators

Last updated: 09/30/2024
• imcrashing added 3 years ago (also mods r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/NonMonoR4R30Plus, r/NonMonoR4R40Plus, r/TeleGuardR4R, and 2 more...)

BDSMPersonals40Plus Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• 40 years old and older only

To post here you must be 40 and older and searching for 40 and older.

• No selling accounts allowed

No posters involved with for-$ activities anywhere on reddit (bio, posts, comments, PMs, etc).

• You may post once every twelve hours only

Posting frequently and attempting to bypass this rule with alt accounts will be banned.

• Post should be correctly tagged

The flare you are using should match the content of your post. For example, couples searching for anyone should use "Mulitple for Anyone" not "Female for Anyone".

• Respect the privacy of others

Do not ask for or share content of other people. This includes but not limited to rating/sharing/tributing content of SO's/family members/friends. All such posts will be removed and the user banned.

• Don't share personal information

Don't post, share, or even hint to email addresses, Kik, Snapchat, phone numbers, etc. Save them for PMs, not public posts or comments.

• No open group chats

This is not the place to post about an open group chat, like a Discord server, Telegram group, etc. Relationships with more than two are welcome (and there are tags for it), but casting wide nets for group chats of people that barely know each other is not what this subreddit is for.

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