Hi,,

Please only message if you are resident in the UK or looking to move to UK shortly.

I'm 41 from the UK with a reasonable amount of BDSM experience under my belt, ultimately looking for a long and enduring IRL relationship, but keen to meet with new people along the way, I've made mistakes here and there and I do enjoy encouraging and advising those who are new to all this. After years of consideration I know I'm looking for something more akin to TPE than anything else, but want to stress that it is an end goal and not a starting point. With that in mind, while I'm not rich, the relative success I've had in my career means that for the right girl, if it deemed appropriate for the both of us, I am in a position to be able to support us both financially.

Preferences Age - 25 , I've enjoyed age gap relationships in the past with younger women, equally I've found myself attracted to women in their late 40s it's all about the person. I guess you can read this as he's not particularly discerning or he can see beauty in many different people (god that sounded cringe) - I'll let you decide.

Personality - I tend to be more attracted to girls who are more service orientated/obedient rather than brats - there's nothing wrong with a bit of harmeless button pushing now and again, but if it's your life's purpose we'll probably not be compatible. Please use the term mushroom in your message, just so I know you're human.

Vanilla life - you are probably a little nerdy (as am I) and are passionate about something other than kink.

Limits - Minors/children - Animals - Scat - Blood - knife/Gun Play

Kinks - many and wonderous, the fun is in finding out, plus I prefer not to oversexualise my posts.

Final word - as I alluded to above I have a professional career with a senior position, I take this very seriously and for reasons that should be obvious I do require you to be discreet. If you are struggling for a conversation starter, tell me about the most amazing meal you've ever had (I'm a big foodie), or perhaps one of your favourite movies and why it spoke to you so much (I'm also something of a cinephile), or hell if you want to just send me your kinklist ;), if it works it works.

If I'm not for you I wish you the very best to luck in your search. If you noticed the Oxford comma in the title it was indeed intentional, thanks for noticing you sexy little grammar girl.