Maybe I have the term wrong.

Discovered a new kink last night with my girlfriend. She enjoys almost all forms of beating (sting over thud tho) but we found one last night that she finds particularly frustrating/arousing and I really enjoy that.

I got the idea when she was telling me about her couple using an electro stim rig on her. I thought to myself wow she is into almost any form of sensation as long as it's something new so I thought what if I took that away and gave her almost an absence of sensation? Like just one very light sensation.

I had her strapped to the bed with an under bed restraint system then I held her forehead down with my hand so that her head was immobile. Then I would lightly brush my lips against her lips and told her that if she used her tongue to kiss me she'd get beat. Which she did, of course. It got her incredibly aroused, more than I've ever gotten out of the flogger etc.

So what next?