As title alludes to, my question is how do you (subs) manage emotionally when doms may have other subs if that’s something allowed in your dynamic? Doms please feel free to chime in with things you do to help your subs in this regard.

I’m not in an exclusive relationship with my dom and I’m okay with that bc while I only plan to have one dom, I’m a switch and would eventually like to take on a sub or maybe even a vanilla partner occasionally.

The idea of me having a sub sounds nice. The idea of my dom having others is fine and fair, but a bit triggering for feelings of inadequacy. I know I could very well ask for more affirmation, extra care, boundaries, restrictions, etc and he’d oblige, but of course I need to do my part for proper/ healthy emotional regulation.

Any suggestions?