Just seriously wishing I wasn't a submissive. It's hard being a male sub. Wishing I could be anything but. Simply tired of being looked at as either a cash machine or an idiot/weakling. I'm 44, and my wife doesn't seem to have a dominant bone in her body (when it comes to the bedroom, in every other way I'm treated like a servant and now my kid (7NB) is starting to follow in her footsteps) . Our dynamic has just been broken ever since I admitted my submissive desires. Thanks for letting me vent a bit.

Also, if the immediate onslaught of Nigerian dudes in my DM's claiming to be Mistress trained in the classical style looking for honest loyal submissive sub to own in BDSM lifestyle could just NOT, that'd be great mmmmkaay?