Hi everyone,

For context, im switch male, 42, 2 kids 50/50 custody living in a pretty liberal city (Montreal).

After i got separated 7 years ago, i decided to take the plunge and induldge in my kinks. Its been a great journey and it is now something i dont think i could go without with a partner.

That being said, i feel it is hard to find a long term kinky partner (yes, i know about munches, but its not easy to go alone, and its also often conflicting with my daddy schedule), and while i had a couple of 1 year relationship with a sub, the long term partner search seems more and more like finding a needle in a haystack.

Im at the point now where im starting to consider trying vanilla again to open up more potential partners, but im also thinking that will just end with me feeling unhappy/unfulfilled (sex is a big part of how i enjoy life)

So the question is how did you find your kinky loved one? Have you ever tried to move away from your kinks for love? How did that turn out?