Context: been playing with this dom (my first dom) for a sec as fwb/play partners and I’ll usually try and text him/send him memes/etc. But he rarely responds/will respond the next day. I’ve tried texting less/texting at different times to see if it’s just related to him being busy: Same results. Kinda wanted to text this to him but don’t know if it’s a good idea.

“Hey X, I hope you’re day’s been going good. I don’t really know how to say this but I feel like I’m being ignored. I try and reach out over texts but there’s usually little to no response. Often times I feel like I’m being a bother just attempting to reach out to you.

I’ve really enjoyed having you as a play partner and would want to continue if possible. If you don’t want to continue this I would hope you would let me know. But if you do would you mind reassuring me?”

Is there any thing I should change or should I just not send it and suck it up because I’m overthinking?

Update that no one asked for: I called him instead of texted and tried to put a positive spin on it like one comment suggested and it worked! I appreciate everyone that gave me advice!