I have been looking for over a year, maybe two years, at buying some basic bondage restraints and accessories. However, there are so many options and such a broad price range, that I get overwhelmed and never make a decision. Hopefully someone here can ask me some questions, give me guidance, recommend items, and/or put together a “kit” to meet our needs. I hate to seem so helpless, but I have ADD/OCPD and it’s nearly impossible for me to stay focused long enough to put together a cart of items that works together. This is an all-or-nothing purchase for me, meaning that I’m unable to make myself buy pieces and parts; I want to buy it all at one time.

I have created a list of the items that interest us. Price is not necessarily a concern, but I don’t want to be irresponsible.

Choker/Collar with leash and tether: We are into choking, and frequently use hands, clothing, belts, etc. I would like to find a good quality collar to use primarily to keep tension on her neck while in doggy position.

Blindfold

Ball Gag and/or Bit

Nipple Clamps or Suction Cups: She loves nipple play, and can almost climax from having her nipples sucked.

Tether type restraints (not hog tie): We would enjoy having her hands restrained to her body, behind her back, to her legs, and/or to her neck collar. However, I don’t think we are interested in a hog tie where her hands would be tethered to her ankles (yet).

Bed four-point restraints strap kit. Concealable and with necessary wrist and ankle restraints included or purchased separately.