I hope he is not in this group and sees this, it would be very embarrassing. My first dominant, he spoke to me after two months without talking, he just said "I wanted to ask you something" He didn't even ask me how I was, he went straight to the point, he asked me if I wanted to be used by him while his submissive watched us. I don't know what to answer him, on the one hand maybe I want but on the other hand I feel uncomfortable and used in a bad way, also I don't feel very comfortable with another girl watching me. It hurt me a bit that he told me that in that way, this is ridiculous because obviously he would have another submissive but it hurt me a bit that he told me, I don't know if in his head he thought it was a very good idea to ask me. I don't know how to refuse or if I should accept. I would like to know your opinion and if you have any advice.