I don't know how to word this so I'm just gonna be as straightforward as possible.

I'm brand new to the world of kink, and even more than that, to the world of being a Dominant. My first big step was joining a kink-based discord server which has already helped me a lot!

Yesterday a sub on the discord put out an open invitation to folks to tease and play with them in DMs, which I decided to take them up on that offer, trying my hand at being a Dominant, and boy I'm a little out of my depth.

I wanted to do something firm and exciting and told them that they weren't allowed to cum today until they had made at least one person cum using them as the subject of the orgasm. Unfortunately I underestimated how hard this would actually be and the sub ended up not being able to cum all day (it's 9pm and I've just come up with a workaround to allow them to cum today after their self-imposed week-long edge).

I feel shitty despite what they say, how they enjoyed having a task and being forced to abstain from touching themselves.

Bearing in mind that this was not intended for long term and was just a curious short term glimpse into what Domming is like, what are some ways to give subs permission to orgasm that lets them feel like they've truly earnt it as a reward?