How do I punish a sub without feeling bad?

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I usually practise “soft” BDSM and my sub/boyfriend is much more experienced than I am. We do chastity and today, a day I left him uncaged (to help his dick recover from a long stint in the cage) he masturbated, which is against the rules I’ve set for him.

The fact that he told me he masturbated indicates that he wants and expects punishment. He loves impact plays especially and has mentioned wanting bruises from it. But I hate being mean/cruel so I’m struggling to think of punishment I can inflict that won’t leave me feeling bad.

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