Hey all,

I'm gay, and I have a service kink, but I'm turned off by dominance. I like sacrificing and meeting needs, but I like it to always be my decision to do that. I hate orders. Just tell me you're thirsty, express any need, and I'll jump up to meet it (if I decide I want to do that... which is 99.9% of the time). I hate "yes Sirs", I hate punishments, I hate feeling like I didn't actively decide to meet a need but am simply "obeying". Still, I want to spend hours of my day jumping through hoops to serve a man's every whim.

The problem is I hardly know how to advertise myself, and I especially don't know which key words to use to find someone who would want this. Do I say I'm looking for a...prince? Can anyone help add to my vocabulary to make my search a little easier? Does anyone have any advice about how to advertise myself on dating apps?

Thanks everyone! I know I'm a weirdo!